Pastoral Care
This part of the course explores the role of elders and the Elders' meeting in ensuring pastoral care takes place within the congregation and looks at ways in which this can be effective
9. Aspects of pastoral care
9.3. Being inclusive
Inclusion and being aware of our biases
Many of us may find it more natural to relate to one individual in a family, or to particular people within our church - this is normal human nature. We should however try to cultivate an attitude of inclusion so that all those within our care feel noticed, valued and appreciated.
We all have biases towards people who are like us – again, it’s human nature – but we can learn to cultivate an attitude of inclusion towards those who are different, whether that’s through ethnicity, gender, sexuality, age, mental health, disability, social class or anything else. Being aware of our biases and becoming more self-aware of our behaviours and attidudes takes time and even courage but if we can do this our churches will become more welcoming, inclusive and diverse, better reflecting God's love for all.